Thursday, November 29, 2012

So many things to be thankful for

Thanksgiving 2012

We celebrated this year at the Havlik's house in Tulsa.  The entire family was complete for the first time, well officially anyway, as Audrey and Dallas were married a couple months ago.

Our new family of three! We finally got one of Cohen's grins on camera - too cute!  And I do want to point out the turkey onesie I found on Etsy.  I bought the 'C' and just ironed it on to one of his onesies at home.

Typical for us, Dad and Laura spent all day preparing the meal while we...
 held Cohen...
 held Cohen...
and drank a bit of vino...





I was too busy chowing down to remember to take a picture of the actual feast, but let me assure you, it was amazing.  Compliments to the chefs, for sure!  Audrey and I even got to eat GF stuffing because our daddy loves us that much.  Yum. Yum. Yum.

THE AFTERMATH
 That would be Laura passed out with Cloe. She couldn't even make it to the couch - ha!
 Drew made it a bit further before the turkey cast its sleeping powers
And Cohen slept through the entire thing.  Patrick was just dozing off with his son ;-)

We have lots to be thankful for this year: A healthy pregnancy and delivery, a healthy and happy son, a new job for Patrick, a new brother-in-law Dallas, the closing of the chapter of the Houston house, the birth of our first neice Finley Reese, our friends and family, our church and Sunday school...the list goes on and on.  I don't know how 2013 can top this one, God is so good.

Blessings!




Two months old!


Two. Months.

Sixty-one. Days.

Hold. Me.


 You've learned how to stick out your tongue :-)
Cohen,


We have found you like music, not white noise, when you sleep.  Except for Hindemith, you seem to like anything we put on the iPod (funny enough, Hindemith isn't my favorite either)

You have one 5 hour stretch usually at night. A couple nights recently we've even gotten a 6 hour stretch! Thank. You. Lord.

You took your first car road trip. Take that Maui ;-)

You've grow too much. At your pediatrician appointment yesterday you were 12 lbs and 23.5 inches long. (still in the 50/60% for boys)  I packed up all your newborn clothes and you are fully in the 0-3 month.  Don't ask how many tears got packed in that tupperware container.  I still remember when the newborn size were huge on you!  You are fitting really well in your thirsties size one diapers, and the cloth diapers in general are fitting you better.

The fur-babies are warming up to you a bit more.  They only come close when you are sleeping ;-)

You are fitting into socks and shoes finally which is good because momma is all about the accessories.:-)

You have lots of spit up and are still pretty gassy.  The pediatrician things you have a milk allergy...so now I have to figure out how to eat diary AND gluten free.  You're worth this, right???  Someone send me some recipes!


You sleep most nights in your crib, but I use the pack in play for naps. 

You've been all cuddles for the last week or so... then want to be left alone...you take after me.  I have only so much tolerance for being held, something your daddy hates!

We survived the dreaded 6 week growth spurt and still exclusively breastfeeding, although we are still really struggling with momma overproducing and causing your tummy to ache


The best thing this month is you have really started smiling at every chance you get, and you 'talk' back to us.  We have caught a couple giggles while you are dreaming, but none while you are awake.  We haven't been great at catching the grin on camera just yet.  You have performance anxiety....

Cohen, you are the best thing we have every done.

Blessings!

Friday, November 16, 2012

Go Pokes!

Last Saturday (11.10.12) we took Cohen to the OSU vs. West Virginia game in Stillwater.  It was his first road trip, but we had to go because we were celebrating!  It was Uncle Matt's birthday, it was the first time WVU played us as part of the big 12, and it was Cohen's first trip to OSU ;-)

 Cohen and his uncle Drew.  Patrick and Poppy got to get into the game with tickets from him!  Uncle Drew Rocks!

It was super windy all day.  We were closing our eyes during the gusts because the dirt would just fly.  I'm pretty sure Cohen had dirt in his eyes and ears by the time we were done.  However, he didn't seem to mind being held by EVERYONE ;-) Such a spoiled kid already!
Lady lovin' on her grandson....
 Our friend Margeaux and the baby...he was so content with her!

Forgive the goofy face - this is Stephanie, the hostess with the mostess on these tailgate parties.  She is expecting Cohen's playmate this spring and we are so excited!

 Sunday morning with the entire family at Poppy and Lady's house....post hangover breakfast ;-)

Cohen with Uncle Mikey...

 'Playing' with his cousin Finley and Aunt Kara!
 Here's my adorable niece Finley...she liked my OSU hat! Such a girlie girl already and growing up so fast. (she's exactly 7 months to the day older than Cohen...cuz we planned that....yeah...um.. :)
 See, they are best buds already!
 On Sunday after the game, my college roomie and her new family drove down from Wichita to see us.  Her adorable son, Henry, was bright-eyed and so happy.  Cohen was a bit fussy, but I think he enjoyed it anyway.  We went to Hideaway Pizza - a Stillwater must eat- and it was soooo yummy!

 The boys and Cohen...


 I mean, seriously?  You are one cute kid Henry!

Cohen all bundled up. We decided the hat made him look a little....well, thug-ish so we took a picture before we left.  I still think you're super cute!

Blessings,


Thursday, November 15, 2012

8 weeks!

Cohen,

I'm glad I get to say you are 8 weeks for 5 more calendar days.  Because after that point, you are two months old, and I don't know if I can handle that yet!

 Aw mom...do we have to take another picture?
 I tried to get a giggle shot, and caught the tail end of his wide mouth grin!

You are growing longer and longer these days.  We had to buy you new pajamas because the ones we had are too short..and the ones we bought for 0-3 months are too heavy.  You are a hot baby and like your thin cotton pjs better than the thicker fleece ones. (Notice these are Christmas pjs?? You are really growing faster than we anticipated here, buddy...)

We have settled more into a routine.  You go to bed between 9-10pm and get up between 7-8:30 am.  Most nights you get up twice: once around 2-3 and once around 5-6. You are very awake and smiley in the mornings but tend to nap a lot more in the afternoons.  Your morning naps are always less than an hour and your afternoon ones can run more than 3!

We do a little bob-time every day now.  We can't call it going for a walk otherwise your fur-sisters get all worked up.  We do about 2 miles everyday and mommy is jogging for very VERY short stints of it.  You seem to like it and usually fall asleep after the first 10 minutes.


 Yesterday was freezing...here's our solution ;-) All bundled up and super cute!  On the shopping list is a bundle me (Thanks for the suggestion Kinsey! You can find her blog here.)
You tend to need a bit of snuggle time to go back to sleep during your afternoon nap.  Sometimes I wonder if you have bad dreams already, but after I rock you for a bit, you always go back to sleep. 

You are starting to hold your head up better and we've started putting you in your bumbo!  You LOVED staring at the blades of the fan from the seated position.
You had your first tailgate at OSU....another full post on that awesomeness later ;-) (BTW you are in the trunk of daddy's car here.  It was the best place to get you out of the Oklahoma wind!)

Blessings!



Cloth Diapers


Cloth Diapers?!?!?

Yes, I just heard you gasp, and you aren’t the first to tell us we are crazy.  Patrick and I have decided to cloth diaper Cohen.  No, it’s not the old burp cloth and diaper pin cloth diaper plan like it was when I was a baby – they have come a LONG way!

Here is Cohen a few days old with his first prefold and cover on.  He was so tiny...I can't believe how this didn't fit him!
 Here is Cohen a few weeks ago.  Look how much those thighs have filled out!  That has really helped with us finding diapers that fit!

There are several reasons why we ultimately decided that cloth was the way to go for our family.  Our biggest two reasons are I think they are fashionable and look amazingly cute why in the world would you just use a plain white diaper??  the budget/money issues and the health issues. :-) Monetarily, the average family spends between $2K- $4K per child in disposable diapers (depending on how long it takes them to be potty trained).  If you have multiple children, you are talking about a small fortune literally being flushed down the toilet (put in landfills!) For us in our new budget, this just wasn’t an option.  Our initial investment in diapers is around $500 total – and we decided to go with the one size diapers that will last from Cohen’s birth to when he’s potty trained. 

Health-wise we are concerned with allergies since I have such bad allergies already.  Sposies (short for disposable diapers) have LOADS of chemicals in them.  I’m not going to quote studies or get really scientific, but the next time you look at the back of the diaper box, just google ONE of the additives.   I know the little blue line makes it easy to tell when your newborn has a wet diaper, but imagine the chemical reaction that has to take place in order for that to occur.  As Patrick once so eloquently put it, “There is nothing safe about putting chemicals by my balls….so surely my baby boy’s butt isn’t going to be in those things!” 

We have made this decision for our family, please don’t take offense to yours.  In fact, Patrick and I both were sposie children and we turned out just fine.   We have had to use sposies way longer than anticipated.  His circumcision took 2 weeks to heal and about the same time his belly button fell off.  Well, then we were off to Maui so we used disposable then as well.  When we returned it was time for the trial and error period.  We discovered the root of his diaper rash was the disposables, so I was really trying to cloth him immediately.  The problem was he is/was too small for most of our 30+ diapers.  I was stuck doing laundry every day....we have since ordered another 12 diapers that are sized small (9-18 lbs) and hope that will get us through until Cohen is 4-5 months old.

Here is our stash:
We are using a mix of styles for diapering.  I am comfortable with the prefolds and covers and will be using them while at home and/or on weekends.  They are the cheapest, but also require the most prep work.  Also, Cohen can feel the wetness on these pretty fast so he has to be changed immediately after he goes.  We have mostly pocket diapers which allows us to adjust the absorbency depending on Cohen’s growing, but we also have 10 or so All-In-Ones (aka Daddy and Grandparent proof).  These are JUST like sposies with nothing to put together or take apart. 
Here is the changing table and our set up that works for now.  The diaper warmer (thanks Amanda!!) holds about 10 cloth wipes and I pour solution over them about every 2-3 days.  We found it was easier to use cloth wipes otherwise we had to have two trash cans in the room...plus, its way more convenient to wash everything at once. (see our sposie stash there? We haven't used a single one ALL week!!)
Here is the wipe solution (water, baby soap, and some essential oils) and the wipes (cheap baby washcloths!)

The other side of the changing table.  Here is our pail liner (we got the trashcan for $15 at Garden Ridge Pottery) so when the diapers need to be washed we literally just pull the liner and wash the whole kit n kaboodle!
We use Charlie's detergent right now and really like it.  I can put up our wash routine if you want to know what it is...  And to answer the real question in the back of your mind, the poop doesn’t scare us.  In fact, after dealing with Bella’s issues last week, at least Cohen’s will be contained!  And, breastfeed baby poop is water soluble so we just wash it out – easy peasy!  The washer doesn't get the stains out, so every few weeks I've been sunning the diapers- they are SO white afterwards.  Its amazing how well the sun erases those stains!   Oh, and I definitely dry the diapers in the dryer.  Don't be fooled and think I'm hanging laundry everyday - I've got better things to do!  I do a diaper load about every 2 days right now. 

Our favorite diapers right now (Cohen is almost 2 months old) are the thirsties size ones.  I have thirsties covers, a couple pockets and their all-in-ones.  Cohen basically lives in those most of the day.  We also have a fabulous stash of some diapers from Tail Feathers.  She makes them out of her home and they are pretty amazing as well.  I use prefolds when we are at home, but I really prefer the pocket or all-in-one for easy use.

Have I convinced you that we aren't cray-cray? Hm....well, come and visit.  I bet you'll get addicted to them as much as we are. 



7 weeks!

Cohen,

This should have posted last week, but we've been busy bonding ;-) Better late than never, right?  You are seven weeks old!  This week has been pretty transitional...lots of learning about you taking place!




Your Cici came down to visit us (well, really just you!) this week.  We had so much fun at the arboretum and hanging out.  Mom and Dad were really looking forward to Cici doing the 3 am feedings while she was here so we could get some sleep...you, however, had different plans.  For the first time in your short life you slept 6 hours STRAIGHT for BOTH nights.  And then, as luck would have it, the next three days you were up every 1.5 to 2 hours.  We told Cici she had to come live with us because you slept so well when she was here ;-)


This week I have kept pumping at the midnight feeding time to get some milk in reserve.  Some nights I get triple what you are eating.  This week you are eating about 3 oz when daddy gives you your one bottle a day.


We suspect this week was your '6-week' growth spurt.  You spend a lot of time on the boob and not sleeping for about 3 days.  I weighed you on our scale and I'm almost certain you are at the 12 pound mark!  Holy Cow!  You've also grown out of your newborn clothes, especially length-wise.  I can still get you in the NB onesies but not the outfits with feet/pants.  They are way too short!

Sleeping...Le sigh  This part of the week has NOT been great.  But you look so cute, almost like you're praying!

We love you little boy!

Blessings,
 

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